The little things...

I was traveling with my little sister a few days ago, and when we got to the park I realised the ticket prices have been hiked. Like with extra 2k each that I didn't even plan for. My atm card disappointed me the previous night and we left the house late that morning couldn't even withdraw at the bank on our way to the park. So you might understand why I was pissed that the money I had on me, that ideally would have been more than enough to pay for our tickets and also feed us during the trip, was no longer enough for one person sef.
I was so pissed and I left the payment counter without even paying, I thought I had other choices. So I walked to my sis and told her to look after our bags I was coming. I went to about four different parks and they all redirected me to the initial one I already went to, all because their cars already left that morning and it was just one park that has multiple buses going to my destination.
It pained me eh, cheeiii. I was pained.
Like so after all my guy guy now, I will go back to this park now and still pay.
I just stopped at an atm on my back and withdrew, got to the park and shamefully told my sis to go pay so they don't laugh at me. I became short tempered, and continued hissing at every little thing.
But my sis surprised me. She just called my name calmly, and said 'thank you'.
Just that word 'thank you' made everything seem better and worth it. I felt better, and my countenance changed almost immediately.
So, let's put in more efforts in the little things. They actually do count!

Freedom

A Facebook friend just asked me what I value most about friendship. I didn't really think twice before I answered FREEDOM.
You see eh, my personality cannot just do without it. I love to be free, in all areas and facets of my life. I love free dresses, free spirits, free foods 😂😂, free people, I don't like to feel like I'm being caged or restricted in anyway. My last relationship ended because I felt like I was walking into a cage, of my own making. I couldn't say, feel or do what I wanted. And that messed with my idealogy, it messed with my mind. I couldn't express myself fully and properly, so I became short tempered. I didn't laugh as much as I used to, I didn't find humour in the little things I usually did, I didn't see reasons to smile or laugh unnecessarily again, which were mostly part of me.
But I realised, and I urge you to as well, know what works for you. Be as free and as happy as possible, and then be with the one who understands and allows all of that. Allows all of you, to be you.
In the end, it's all worth it. It's all that matters 🤗🤗🤗.

The video is just a tip of my happy side. The situation and circumstance then annoyed me, so I found a way around it and danced 💁‍♀️😍🤗😂. I know I'm good don't tell me! 🙄😏u

Ah.. See fine bobo🤔😍

My legs were hurting me so I had to just find somewhere to rest it 🤕. I just admired this one inside church and passed, then he started walking towards me where I was sitting.

Ah ah, this God is too good o🤗😎, I just arrange myself well.
He came closer and said 'please let me join you 🙄🙄😏..'
only?? 😒 😒. You will not ask for number? Mtcheww 😏 😏. You are not that fine sef, and my liver did not allow me shoot my shot jare 😢😐.
Anyway, we already have our prewedding pics like this, even though he doesn't know it yet🤣🤣😂🤣, as my sister zoomed in on us and took the shot 😎🤗.
Sharp girl neme Charity is.
#SaturdayWeddings

#lilystitches on this one of course!

My first day as a blogger 🤗😍

Errrmm, I just created this blog. Yayyyyy🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️. I'm really excited, because I've been procrastinating doing this for a long time now, with no real zeal to do it.
But I met this long time friend who gingered my swagger again and I just had to. So ya, I'm here and I hope to have fun writing. I also hope you enjoy reading my stories as much as I would love telling them.
It will be basically my everyday experiences, the good, the bad and the funny. I will also share stories I would want people to read and learn from, or those I would want to go back to in future.
So let's do this!

I really don't know how this works, but I'm open to learn and unlearn new things.